Category Archives: Home Management

Blog Name Change & New Series

Hello Lovelies,

I finally changed the name of my blog.  I’m getting a lot more time lately now that I have my home in order, a new planning process, and life is getting on that road to boredom LOL!  Things are slowing down and it’s quite nice.  I wanted to change the name primarily because I’m not single any longer, but I wanted to reach a broader audience.  While my support for a single mother and the power of a woman view will never ever change, it was just time. Same site, just a different name.  I think its more fitting.

Old Name: Single Mama, One Income

New Name: the Life of a Frugal Wife

I have new posts in the works for Frugal Fridays and will be doing a series that is really important to me.  I’m calling this series Mom, Inc. It focuses on the power of a woman in the home, the struggles, the chaos, and the overwhelming feeling she can have by wearing many hats at once.  Honestly, you can ask babydoll, my husband.  I run my home like a BOSS!  I’m the CEO of our home and I’m very business oriented.  It runs like a business. That is how my mind works and that is how I keep my sanity.  Here’s a sneak peek!

Mom Inc.

Everything you need to run a successful business, you need to run your home.  I run my home…like a BOSS!  I’m CEO of our humble abode and I’m damn proud of it.  It doesn’t run flawlessly, no business does.  But by using certain aspects, our family runs more efficiently.  I’m a woman actually works inside my home (I’m employed), a mother of an ADHD/ODD teenager, a wife to a husband who works across country, a step-mother, soccer mom, and a writer. In other words, I’m the CEO, Executive Admin, HR, Accounting, Production, and Maintenance departments all in one.  Businesses cannot run by the seat of their pants and expect to make money and save money.  Neither does your home. 

I will be posting in this series starting April 4th.  Be sure to check back every Monday for Mom, Inc. 

Frugal Friday: Budgeting & Money $

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Hello Lovelies,

Money is always a headache and bills are evil.  Here are some tips I use for staying on track.  By writing things down and keeping a log, I am able to stay on top of things without having to think too much.  Seeming we are striving for a debt free lifestyle and getting more into homesteading, eliminating future debt and paying late fees etc. is key. I use two main spreadsheets.

  1. Monthly Budget Sheet: to keep track of bills and when they are due.  Our family is paid bi-monthly so our bills are separated into two pay periods.  This gives each pay period a designated purpose.  Once I receive a bill I then write down the amount due. This does not include past debt. This is just for bills we pay each and every month to run our home. I use a new sheet every month because some bills like our gas and electric vary by a few days.  You want this to be as accurate as possible to avoid late fees or that dumb 5% of the total bill late charge.  You can create your own in Word by making a template with two columns.  Bill list on the left and due dates on the right. 
  2. Bill Tracker:  is to keep a list of bills and then have all of the months of the year in columns across the page to check off that they were paid each month. You can create your own in Excel by making a list on the left and each column header being a month.

How I keep organized files:  I keep a manila folder to store bills as they come in.  When I pay them, I pull the bill and write the date paid as well as how I paid (auto draft/bill pay/debit card, money order), the call reference number, and rep I spoke to to make my payment on the actual bill.  I save all bills for one year.  When the following years month comes up, I discard the bill from last years month.  Giberish?  Let me explain.

I get a bill for the month of March for Verizon.  I file the bill with all my payment information on it in my file bin.  Next March, I pay the same bill then file that away while removing the bill from this year and shredding it.  It eliminates a ton of paper clutter and overflowing record keeping.  

Where to find the spreadsheets: Find a monthly budget printable separated by how your family is paid.  Either by week, bi-weekly, or monthly. (Google “free budget printables”). There are a ton of super cute ones to keep you motivated! Find one or make one depending on your frequency of pay.

How I use my spreadsheets:  Every bill should get its own line as well as columns across the page for each month of the year.  As they are paid each month, check mark or X out that month to show its been taken care. Any empty spaces will indicate at first glance you didn’t pay that bill.  Use both of the above spreadsheets together to create a fail proof budgeting system. This works for our home, but do what works best for you.  Getting into the cuteness of it and using creative colorful sheets will help you WANT to use them. Especially if you are a chic like me 🙂 I also have colored Sharpie fine point pens.

How to file your spreadsheets:  I save this sheet only and file it in my  “Annual Payments” folder for quick reference if there ever is a problem.  If I need to show proof of payment or there is a discrepancy, I can pull my bank statement for that month in question and show the charge. Ask my husband, I can argue something I paid 3 years ago!

It’s that easy!  I like the good ole paper and pen technique.  Plus by writing it down you can actually visualize where your money is going and how it is spent versus swiping your card card and checking your statements.  I know what goes out and what comes in.  Every penny is allocated.  Whatever is leftover before each pay period I pop into savings.

Example:  We get paid every other Friday.  So if by Thursday before our payday we have $400 in the bank, I will put $395 in savings and start over the following morning with just our new income.

Happy Budgeting!!

Coming Up: Frugal Fridays!

Hello Lovelies,

I thought as we embark on a fresh, New Year, that I would do something just a little different.  I’ve always been the type of person that will try to do something myself rather than spending money.  Even if it means cutting my sons hair! I love the feeling of accomplishment when I can do something myself that is just as good if not better than if I spent the money for it or to have it done for me.  So this year, I will introduce Frugal Fridays where I post one frugal tip each Friday.  These won’t be long posts, but rather a quick tip that I use frequently to save both time and money.

We have 53 Friday’s this year due to leap year, but our first Friday was New Years Day.  So watch out for 52 frugal tips starting this Friday January 8, 2016.

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My First E-Book! The Power of Penny Pinching

Hello Lovelies,

I finally finished my first e-book.  I’m so super excited!  It will be a four part series focusing on the basics that I use in my home. Some of what I talk about is common sense or is well known knowledge. But I know that not everyone is into blogging and YouTube like I am. Please be honest and let me know what you think!

It is written while I was talking to you (to my computer).  So it’s not entirely grammatically correct and well….its mine.  Enjoy!

Penny Pinching in an Apartment